Avoid Bad Days In BJJ (Don’t Set Expectations)

 

Do you sometimes have bad days in BJJ? Of course you do. We all do. But could you be causing these bad days in BJJ unknowingly because of a bad mindset when you’re training? Even worse, could this same mindset be hindering your overall development?

We’ve had an influx of new students coming into the gym to train BJJ over the last few months, which is a good thing. But now they’re all getting to this point where they are getting good enough that they are having some success which is leading to a negative thought process.

Since they have broken the seal and realized that they can actually hit their techniques during rolling. Many of my newer students have begun to set expectations for themselves. You know, they submitted Bob last week so they now expect to always submit Bob.

But this is the wrong way to think and will lead to bad days in BJJ.

Just like the rest of us. When they first started training they were just happy to be on the mats. They were brand new and did not expect to be successful. But now, as they’ve become accustomed to Brazilian Jiu-jitsu they think that they are supposed to perform at a certain level every single time.

This mindset is dangerous.

Why It’s A Bad Idea To Set Expectations Every Time You Train

First off, you have to remember that your training partners in BJJ are working hard too and they will adjust with you. This is the beauty of having consistent training partners. You build one another up, together. Like the old saying, “iron sharpens iron.” Right?

Second, and most important in my opinion. You’re going to limit yourself because of fear. If you’re solely fixated on winning and/or beating your partner. Then you will be forced to play your “A” game all the time. This takes away the ability and openness to experiment with new positions and areas you’re unfamiliar with. This will limit your growth and hinder you’re ability to be the best BJJ practitioners that you can be. I know I struggled with this a ton until I was a purple belt. After relaxing and allowing myself to experiment more and use the gym as my lab. My game shot up like crazy.

So don’t make these mistakes that I did and that so many BJJ practitioners make.

Thanks guys!

-Chewy

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