How to pick a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu school
How to pick the right BJJ School for you!
I am a Brazilian Jiu-jitsu instructor and I know going into a gym can be a very intimidating thing. Just going into a place and learning a skill from a complete stranger can be a challenging obstacle to overcome regardless of what that skill is.Now couple that with the fact gyms can sometimes be associated with meat heads/tough guys types and you’re going to be learning a potentially deadly martial art, and just stepping your foot in the door can seem terrifying. Now, don’t let your fears of getting started thwart your enthusiasm for learning Brazilian Jiu-jitsu because it will be an amazing experience as long as you pick the right gym.
How do I pick the right BJJ gym?
You want to make sure that you pick the right gym for you because this is going to become your sanctuary from all the regular stresses of life and you will make great new friendships with so many different people. Over the years I have talked to many of my new students and they have expressed some common concerns or questions that they had when going into the process of choosing a gym. Below is a step by step process I would follow if I was looking for a gym and some tips to consider as well.
- How to find and decide on a school
1. Do a search and locate all of the BJJ gyms in your area.
2. Call these gyms, ask any questions you have and schedule a free class. If they don’t offer a free class than move on and “X” that school off your list.
3. Go into the gym and check it out. Meet the staff, student base and attend a class. You may feel a little awkward at first and this is natural, but you should feel respected and valued by the instructor and the student base should be friendly. If you at anytime feel disrespected then you should move on to another school.
4. After attending you first BJJ class you should have two things going through your head. Those thoughts should be about the awesome experience (i.e how friendly everyone was and the cool techniques you learned) and the great workout you had. If you finish class with a negative vibe then something is wrong. However, If you’re just feeling down on yourself because you didn’t tap anyone and/or you fudged up your moves during the technique portion of class, get over it! Hah, remember its your first night and this stuff takes years to master.
5. After you have tried the free class its time to make a decision. Think of the gym, the people, the instruction and how you felt. If you felt welcomed and enjoyed your time then its time to start training!
- Is it that simple?
Yes its that simple. Remember. . . we as instructors and gym staff are here to serve anyone that walks through our doors. We want you to show up because we want to teach,help and share with people this amazing martial art that we love. Without students in our gyms we have no purpose and we are simply a building with a bunch of useless equipment. Mats are worthless if there aren’t students on them.
- Dont
1. Don’t make your decision based only on location or price. If there is a great gym near you and has an affordable price then great, but don’t make your decision based only on those criteria. Would you rather pay more for a comfortable environment, better instructors, friendly student base and a place that you are going to want to go back to everyday, or pay less and get locked into a contract to a place that you don’t really enjoy ?
2. Don’t be afraid to ask any questions you may have. Remember we are here to serve YOU!
3. Don’t fall victim to false instruction. With the popularity of mma and the UFC more and more people are trying to make a quick buck off of new comers and its criminal! Do a search on the instructor at the gym on Google and see what you can find.
- Miscellaneous Tips
1. You’re never too old. I have students that range from 5 – 70 in my gym. In fact, just recently I watch a 65 year old student of mine submit several young guys in class.
2.BJJ classes are typically filled with a very unique group of people. There aren’t many meat head types that stick with our sport, because its too humbling and doesn’t provide instant gratification.I say this because one of the biggest concern new students had coming into the gym is that they would be surrounded by a bunch of “tough guys”.
3.If you are interested in competitions be sure that your gym has competitors and if the high ranking belt is an active competitor that is even better.
4. Don’t expect much when you first start training, its like teaching your body a new language and takes time to settle in. The learning curve for BJJ in my experience is at least a month at bare minimum with an average of 3 months before you and your body have a general idea of what they are doing. Remember though, you’re still a beginner.
5. Once you are a student don’t be a belt chaser. Be a technique chaser. Just learn as much as you can and enjoy your journey.
- What to expect for your first class
Most bjj class follow a pretty routine class format. Sometimes they are slightly different but they all involved a few key sections.
1. Warm up. This can be everything from a little running, push ups, movement drills, etc. Just something to get the body warm, blood flowing and mind ready.
2. Technique. This is the time of class that is devoted to a teaching a particular set of techniques.
3. Rolling. This is when you try to use the techniques you’ve been learning on a full resisting and fully active opponent. Typically rolling will either start on the knees or in one of the positions you were working in class.
4. Bow out. Typically after the rolling portion class is followed by the bowing out which concludes class. This is usually a few words from the instructor, maybe a recap of class and then a bow out followed by a hand shake with each instructor and student.
Happy gym hunting. If you are still having doubts and worries about trying BJJ just disregard them and go try a class, or if you have a concern that I didn’t address please send me a message or comment on this post so that I can help.
One of my important requirements is that the instructor is okay if I visit other schools. For me, I’d rather just ask right up front if this will be okay. If they say no, then it’s not a good fit for me.
I also agree – how welcoming were people, or were they stand-offish? For me, having a welcoming, friendly environment trumps hardcore, rigorous training. What is especially promising is when an instructor rolls with me when I visit. I really like that!
I agree. Many instructors worry about their students leaving for another school and this is why some tend to frown on students who train at other gyms. However, I believe if you put everything into your teaching and genuinely care for them and their training they will realize that and while they may enjoy training at other places, they will also love their main jiu-jitsu school and appreciate the dedication of their instructor.
Exactly! I think it’s different if your jiu jitsu needs are not getting met. For example, I could see a brown belt leaving our gym simply because there’s no one at their level. Or someone who is looking for a much more focused, disciplined gym. But in that case, our style does not fit them.
However, if your gym fits your style and you’re still learning, I like to see what’s around, but love having a home gym. Part of it is because I love the BJJ community and love meeting more people in BJJ and making friends.
I agree and one of the reasons I left my old gym was because of the lack of focus from my old instructor. I believe a focused instructor can maintain an enjoyable atmosphere, both for the competitor and the casual practitioner by using multiple class styles and building an atmosphere based on learning and growth.
My son tends to have so much energy, and I want to put him in an activity that will allow him to express himself and let out his energy. Brazilian jiu-jitsu seems like a great healthy activity that will also teach discipline and self-defense. As you said, scheduling free classes is a great way to see how you feel and how the instructor treats you. Thanks for sharing!
Annika! Good luck with your son’s training. You might even want to give it a try yourself! 😉
Thanks for the comment.
-Chewy
I’ve been training BJJ for 7 months but I don’t feel very comfortable where I’m training. 7 months ago, when I started searching for a gym, my first option was one that’s 5 minutes from my house by bike (that’s where I’m currently training). I did a free class there and in another gym that’s 15 minutes from my house. 15 minutes is no far, of course, but I have to go through a very dangerous part of my city to get there + there are no bicycle paths. I liked the farther gym more, felt really welcomed there, the teacher is attentive, people seemed really nice and calm and I really liked training with them. Plus, they focus a lot on self-defense and the art in itself (while not ignoring competitions and such), which is an approach I feel more comfortable with. The gym I’m currently training, on the other hand has like, 90% men, very loud and silly people that think they’re something else because they train BJJ, and to make it worse, the teacher focuses only on competitions. I’m not even exagerating here, there’s really nothing else in the class besides it. I mean, BJJ is a martial art, it’s not only about competition.
I would totally train in the gym farther from my house, but I don’t have the final word here. My parents think it’s dangerous. Of course, they’re not wrong, it’s really hard to get from my house to that gym, there are a lot of cars and people everywhere, it’s one of the most chaotic parts of my city. But if it depended on me, I’d totally do it.
I really like BJJ and I do have fun training in my gym, but knowing there’s a place where I’d feel a thousand times more comfortable and at ease and have a more complete approach really brings me down sometimes. Also, knowing that I’m missing a lot of what this martial art really has to offer me makes me unmotivated.
Just sharing my story. I would love to know your thoughts about it.
Hey! Thanks for the comment.
If that’s how you feel. I would say go for it. Find a way to make it to the gym further away. Ride your bike there one time to see. Maybe talk to your parents about getting a ride from them (if possible). Maybe in time you’ll get to know the members of that gym and they can give you a ride home. I’ve had many students who I’ve driven home over the years.
I just don’t think it would be smart to know pursue what you really want. There will always be obstacles. Maybe it’s less than optimal path to ride your bike on, or perhaps it’s something else. But there will always be resistance. Don’t let it keep you from the Brazilian Jiu-jitsu experience you wish to have.
Could you afford an Uber to get to and from the class for awhile? After getting to know the other students you could kick back a little gas money every week to someone you trust in class for a ride. Be sure to secure at least two people for rides in case someone is missing class on a day you normally train.
Thank you for this post. I’ll be moving from Shanghai China to London England in November. I’m originally from Syracuse NY. Here in Shanghai only one school so it was easy to find a home. I’m going to miss them.
Problem is London so many schools in that area. Roger Gracie is big and Checkmate Jackson Sousa is at fightzone. Plus so many others in that area.
I plan on trying a few out. Seeing what I like. Not just the big academies but also a few smaller ones. Once Im nervous about this though. Once I find a new home it will be fine. Doesn’t have to be the best in the world just the best for me. If that RGA or a small school. I’ll be happy. Thank you again I enjoy reading your posts and watching your videos.
I have a purple belt, but I have some issues with the sport itself, so it is hard for me to find anyone who will not troll me, instructor wise.
One example is when someone pulls closed guard on me and does not attack for over a minute. I have learned through experience
that it is a bad position, and that trying to open the guard opens up the scissor sweep and many other sweeps. Whereas, if I pin him and wait for him to open with an attack , I can pass ,much more easily. People get frustrated by this and say I am stalling. However , it is the opponent who pulled me into his guard and is holding me there. In reality , he is stalling from a superior position. If they want to separate us I am fine with standing again. But I should not be forced to be the aggressor from a bad position which they pulled and I neutralized.
I do have guard passes, but they are not the usual ones. I do not want my opponent to know what move I am going to do or when. I am happy to frustrate their stall with my own. and then if they were expecting me to stall, then I may pass. Ultimately I want to win the transitions.
Another thing In Judo I was taught that closing the guard is stalling. I play mostly spider, half, and butterfly.
Closed guard opens up groin strikes (drop an elbow on it!) and head slams in the street also, and I do not think its smart. You also have can opener against stronger opponent and the Gene Lebell move where you reach around and crank his top foot around your body in a circle break his ankle , knee, and hip (illegal) because he was so stubborn about holding closed guard.
In my opinion if they cannot produce an attack from bottom of closed guard after one minute the BOTTOM opponent with superior position should be penalized. Tired of getting trolled as the top guy neutralizing position bottom guy went for and locked and did nothing with.
I recently checked out a strength and conditioning class at a BJJ/ Muay Thai/ boxing place (well-known chain). It has good quality. I was trying it as part of a program to do free trial classes at different places. The instructor asked if I was looking at other Muay Thai places. Why did he ask this?